Wallace Immen of the Globe and Mail wrote an article in this week’s Globe Careers with some interesting advice. S’pose I’m a bit biased on this….as I was quoted in it

You can read it here while it’s still online – or the PDF of the article here.

Have a TGIM Work-life

Eileen

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Do you procrastinate? Uhhh….can I get back to you tomorrow on that? Couldn’t resist that

The Globe and Mail Careers invited me to respond to a reader’s question related to procrastination.  You can read the Mentor Minute column here while it’s still on line – or – here, a PDF version.  

…Or you could, you know….wait and read it another day

Whatever you do – don’t procrastinate on your TGIM worklife!

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Eileen

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See today’s Globe and Mail Careers for my latest “Mentor Minute” column in a response to a reader question on how to survive in a thankless work culture.

See article here.

To a TGIM work life!

Eileen

When was the last time you had a big belly laugh? You know the kind that gets you practically crying and aching in your belly, cheeks, etc. Ahhh, those are fun.

(from Flickr – by Yanming)

Well, if you haven’t had one in a while, no worries, there’s help! No I’m not about to tell a joke – instead, I want to share a link to a fabulous person who can make you laugh.

A friend of mine – Wendy Woods of Watershed Training Solutions — is  a Laughter Yoga specialist (amongst other training talents). She is so good, she was recently profiled on Entertainment Tonight – you can see the video on her site.

If your team, company or any group of people can use a chuckle, give her a call.  Get her to come in on a Monday morning….now that will bolster the TGIM spirit!!

Give it a try. It’s good for you!

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If you live in the GTA and could use a little boost, then head on down to one of four Starbuck locations where the International Coach Federation GTA Chapter is hosting “Coaching Conversations for Power and Possibility“.

A few of my peers in the coaching community got together and asked: “What do coaches have that can help people cope with the impact of the current economy?”  Well, coaches are trained to help people shift perspectives from downward, spiraling conversations to those that are more empowering and uplifting – leading to more purposeful action.

So more than 70 professionally trained coaches are donating their time on June 12th at 5 Starbuck locations. For the price of a cup of coffee you can get a taste of an empowering coaching conversation. And proceeds go to the United Way so not only will you be helping yourself, you’ll be helping others in need too. Now how could you go wrong with that?!

Check it out! Read more here.

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Revisiting a topic I’ve previously written about in this blog…albeit still important. Are you Addicted to the Yes Habit? Part of ‘assertiveness/EQ fluency’….. see my latest column in CICA’s online newsletter/Careervision.

If you like it or know others who may be interested – please share it. If you are on Twitter – please Retwitter it! And you can follow me on Twitter at www.Twitter.com/Chadnick 

To a TGIM Work-life!

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Ian Portsmouth of Profit interviewed me for the Profit Growth Planner series. My topic was ‘hiring a coach’. It has just aired and you can listen to it here.

If you like it or know others who may be interested – please share it. If you are on Twitter – please Retwitter it! And you can follow me on Twitter at www.Twitter.com/Chadnick 

To a TGIM Work-Life!

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Early retirement due to job loss? Later retirement due to pension changes? No retirement due to nest egg meltdowns in this economy?!

Ahhh. Retirement planning isn’t what it used to be. As a coach who specializes in helping people define/create/actualize meaningful work and meaningful life – I am paying close attention to all this.  I am also plugged into this “conversation” because I have a long-standing (7 yrs) working relationship with an organization that promotes financial planning and standards in the profession. But I am also looking at this from more than a financial perspective. I am looking from the perspective of TGIM work-life. What will ‘thank goodness it’s Monday’ look like to boomers who are heading towards what used to be ‘retirement phase’ – but now looks nothing like traditional ‘retirement’ of past generations. This is more like an un-retirement kind of retirement. And it calls for a whole different kind of conversation!   

Some people will work longer either because they have to (financially) or they choose to (work gives them meaning).  Some will opt out earlier (package anyone?). Some will retire at the traditional retirement age. But one thing is for sure. Boomers will not be heading out to the pastures of traditional retirement the way previous generations did. Boomers (or Zoomers as defined by Moses Znaimer as “boomers with zip”) are redefining the stage of life where we might shift from traditional full time work to a life in which we create a whole new mix of work and life. Proportions and details will be up to the individual but the key is to create a work-life that meets our needs – from financial, social, spiritual, etc.

This conversation is about more than financial planning (although it should include it). It’s starts with life (and work) planning.

• What will meaningful work look like to you? Part time/full-time? Same work or a whole new direction?
• What will give you meaning in your life if you are working less? What passions, interests, goals will you pursue?
• What social engagements will keep you connected?
• Who will be your ‘communities’?

Just a few questions that will be part of conversation.

I’m ready for that conversation. For myself (I’m a young boomer) – and with others who want some help to clarify and explore the questions.

You will be hearing much more from me on this. And for those ready to start the conversation – get in touch!  Let’s talk about how you will engage in planning for your un-retirement future.

To a TGIM work-life now and in your un-retirement future!

Eileen

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Success. Is it about being the best or your best? Ask Kris Allen. He just won the title of 2009 American Idol, beating out Adam Lambert who was the judges’  favorite.

No one was likely more surprised than Allen himself. He literally stuttered out that “Adam deserves this”.

Kris Allen never set out to win this competition. He set out to simply earn his way into being in (and staying in) the competition. Each week he focused on doing his best and he took advantage of the opportunity. Over the season, he grew leaps and bounds and literally found his voice!  He was considered the ‘dark horse’ and with each week, he continued to be shocked when invited to stay in the game. As the season neared finale, it became clear that if he didn’t win, he’d succeed anyways….with record labels and other opportunities likely lining up at his door. 

Is there a morale to this story? What do you think???!!!

Focusing on being your best without worrying about what the competition is up to can often pay off. Each week, Allen was rewarded for being authentic and as Paula Abdul and the other judges regularly noted – he never lost sight of who he was. He played to his strengths and stayed true to himself.

There are many other stories about how authenticity and focusing on being your best can pay off. This, in fact, was the winning strategy for John Wooden, former head coach for the UCLA basketball dynasty. He brought UCLA to win 10 NCAA national championships in 12 years…and many other notable accomplishments.

His secret to success?

“Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best which you are capable….don’t worry about whether you’re better than somebody else, but never cease trying to be the best you can become” (as  quoted in ‘Wooden on Leadership’).

What about you? Where are you focusing on being your best — and where can you leave behind concerns about the competition?  What of your strengths are you leveraging? What opportunities are coming your way — or are you creating — that you can leverage to grow yourself ? Where did you not earn ‘top spot’ – yet found success anyways because of the effort you made? 

For me…well, this coming weekend I am running a half marathon. I’m as slow as heck and I don’t give a damn. I’ve been running for 30 years…some years ‘ploddier’ than others. I’m proud of it all. I’m too slow to win any medals. But my father (a very accomplished marathoner with more than 70 marathons under his belt) taught me many years ago that every participant is a winner if they bring their best to the race that day.  So this Sunday, I will start out with thousands of other runners. I will focus only on doing what I can do that day – and I will bring my best.

To each of us out there….may you have peace knowing you are bringing your best self to your life each day.

UPDATE (posted June 9): For those inquiring minds – yes, I completed the half marathon! I was extremely happy with the overall experience and what I accomplished that day. I did my best for sure for that particular run. For those in the ‘marathon-know’, I completed my second half-split faster than the first…and finished strong (within my capacity). Now I’m setting my sights on a fall possibility:)

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Tomorrow is Mother’s Day – and it’s got me thinking. For starters, how blessed I am to have my mother as my Mom (same goes for Dad)! And in the context of this blog being about work-life, I’m thinking specifically about the work mothers do.  It’s not a five-day /40 hr work week. It’s 24/7 and life-long. And whether ‘Mom’ also works outside of the home or not, this job of ‘motherhood’  is still full time.

Too often the work of mothers gets marginalized. Moms don’t get annual performance reviews, bonus’s or vacation pay. They don’t get ‘employee of the month’ recognition. Well, they get Mother’s Day. Drum rolls puleeeze!

In the spirit of Mother’s Day, I want to acknowledge, celebrate and dedicate this post to the work of mothers, particularly my own mother for all’s she’s done and who’s she’s been to me all these years.  And,  I also want to single out another particular Mom — one who has had a tremendously challenging path in her journey of parenthood.

(Marcy White with her son Jacob)

My friend Marcy White (with her husband Andrew Trossman) have a son, Jacob, who was born with a severe and very rare handicap. When he was born, no one knew what was wrong – but it was obvious, something was very, very seriously wrong. Eventually, at age 10 months, Jacob was diagnosed with Pelizaeus-Merzbacher Disease (PMD) – a very rare degenerative neurological disorder. If you’ve seen the movie Lorenzo’s Oil, it is within the same family but PMD is distinct and without any cure at this point. Anyone that meets Jacob immediately falls in love with him. He is smart, loving, adorable. But his disease prevents him from talking, walking, eating (he is fed with a tube) — and he suffers from so much more physical difficulty. 

Marcy was a very successful career woman and had always had full intentions of being a mom AND  pursuing her career.  But when Jacob came – as blessed as they feel to have him in their life despite his challenges – Marcy’s “work” took on a whole new meaning. She switched gears and has since unceasingly focused on trying to make life better for Jacob. Marcy and Andrew have since had two (delicious, adorable!) twins…..so needless to say, Marcy’s day job, night job — and anything in between is all about family. She has her work cut out for her.

A tireless advocate and loving mother, Marcy works non-stop to raise  awareness and also try to raise some funds for research to find a cure for Jacob and kids like him. Because it’s so rare a disease, there isn’t much awareness nor any built-in support like some of the other causes out there. They are on their own — and the work never ends. But they (Marcy and Andrew) are on a mission and have purpose in their work…..how’s that for ‘meaningful work’?

MUST READ: Over the years, Marcy has found her strength, courage — and her voice. She tells Jacob’s story in articles, television, and other media.

Their story has been featured on ABC’s Nightline, Global TV, CTV – to name just a few.  Just this week Marcy wrote an article that was featured on EParents.com  This article is a must-read.  Her story told in her voice will move you beyond any words I can write here. You can also see the ABC Nightline report and all other media at the website (www.curepmd.com) .

REQUEST: I am inviting (really ‘requesting’ you to take a moment to read Marcy’s article — and perhaps some of the others on their site. Help me acknowledge the work of mothers and in particular the journey of Marcy, Jacob and the Trossman family. Most importantly, by reading Marcy’s/Jacob’s story, you will support her efforts by raising awareness of PMD….and that just may help advance the search for a cure and/or ways to help Jacob live a better life. 

Happy Mother’s Day and to a TGIM Work-life to you and all the mothers of the world!

Eileen

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